Will Your Immigrant Marriage Survive America?
Moving to a new country changes everything, but your love can do more than survive, it can thrive.
Marriage is supposed to be a place of comfort, belonging, and strength…but when you’re navigating life in a new country, marriage can get complicated fast.
Different expectations.
Different cultures.
Different stress.
Different pressures.
This book is here to help you stay connected, stay grounded, and stay in love — not just survive marriage in America, but actually enjoy it.
Moving to America can bring lots of change…
And change, even good change, can put pressure on your marriage.
Maybe you’ve felt:
Like you’re growing apart instead of growing together.
Like culture, expectations, and stress are pushing you in different directions.
Like you love each other, but you’re tired, overwhelmed, and sometimes misunderstood.
If you’ve ever felt any of that… you’re not alone.
The Heart Behind This Book
This book gives you language, clarity, and guidance so you can:
Understand each other better.
Blend cultures without losing identity.
Talk without fighting.
Support each other through stress and uncertainty.
Feel like a team again.
It’s not heavy theory.
It’s not complicated psychology talk.
It’s real, practical help written from experience — from someone who’s lived it.
Here’s Why You Can Trust This
Pamela Asobo Anchang hasn’t studied immigrant marriage from the outside — she has lived this journey herself.
She moved to the United States from Cameroon.
Built a new life.
Raised a family.
And has been happily married for more than 25 years.
Beyond her own marriage, she has spent years listening to immigrant stories, celebrating immigrant journeys, and walking alongside families navigating life in a new culture.
Inside this book, she shares 11 core principles that help immigrant marriages stay strong — things like communication, trust, flexibility, emotional closeness, honesty, respect, gratitude, empathy, compromise, forgiveness, and learning how to adapt together.
These aren’t abstract ideas. They’re anchors… the kinds of truths that keep your marriage grounded no matter how much life changes around you.
This book is wisdom shaped by experience, community, and real life.
Take Steps Now
Transform your relationship today!
If you’re an immigrant couple trying to build a life together in the U.S… this book is for you.
If you’re married to an immigrant and learning how to navigate two cultures under one roof… this book is for you.
If you’re dating or engaged across cultures and want to build a strong foundation before marriage… this book is for you.
If you’re a community leader, pastor, counselor, or advocate supporting immigrant families… this book is absolutely for you.
Pamela brings warmth, honesty, and culturally aware insight that speaks directly to the realities immigrant families face.
If you’d like to equip your community, strengthen immigrant families, or add a powerful voice to your relationship…