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Breaking Chains: Unveiling Progress in the Global Fight Against Domestic Violence

Breaking Chains: Unveiling Progress in the Global Fight Against Domestic Violence

Transformative Momentum: Unveiling Stories of Resilience and Reform in the Fight Against Domestic Violence

Magazine, Living Well

The persistent challenge of domestic violence, acknowledged as one of the oldest and most pervasive forms of global violence, is undergoing a revolutionary shift led by a determined movement. Esteemed author, essayist, and feminist Angela Davis emphasizes the deeply rooted nature of domestic violence in human societies for centuries. Despite decades of advocacy, recent data unveils that one in three women and one in six men in the U.S. have faced domestic violence.

This evolving movement encompasses diverse initiatives, including legislative measures, judicial reforms, and grassroots mobilization by survivors on social media. Influential figures such as Angela Davis, California State Senator Susan Rubio, Tina Swithin (Founder of One Mom’s Battle), and Viji Sundaram (Reporter for the San Francisco Public Press and Co-Founder of Narika) actively contribute to these discussions, sharing their experiences during a recent Ethnic Media Services (EMS) briefing.

Reflecting on her early awareness of domestic violence as a political issue in the 1970s, Angela Davis highlights the initial challenge of breaking the silence surrounding this pervasive problem. She draws attention to the historical presence of violence in the narratives of black women blues singers, emphasizing the time required for societal ideas to bring about change. Despite this, Davis expresses hope, citing the current era as a unique period of unprecedented political engagement and progress.

Following Davis’s impactful remarks, California State Senator Susan Rubio shares her perspective and initiatives in combating domestic violence. Senator Rubio, a survivor herself, emphasizes the importance of addressing the issue within the legislative framework. She discusses key bills, including the HELP Act and the Phoenix Act, offering support to domestic violence victims, particularly those facing homelessness due to their circumstances.

Senator Rubio sheds light on the challenges faced by domestic violence victims, emphasizing the difficult choices they must make between leaving an abusive relationship and facing homelessness. She discusses the provisions of the Help Act that prioritize support for women in such situations and stresses the need for a gender equity lens in policies related to domestic violence.

Furthermore, Senator Rubio introduces Pinky’s Law, named after a 5-year-old boy tragically murdered by his father during a separation. The law aims to educate judges on domestic violence cases and child custody matters, recognizing the importance of informed decision-making in these sensitive situations.

The senator’s personal experience as a survivor adds a poignant dimension to her advocacy. She challenges misconceptions about domestic violence, sharing her own story as a local council member, teacher, and educated professional who fell victim to abuse. Senator Rubio’s openness and commitment to legislative change underscore the complexity and urgency of addressing domestic violence on multiple fronts.

The collaborative efforts of activists, lawmakers, and survivors reflect a growing determination to dismantle the pervasive nature of domestic violence. As the movement gains traction, there is a sense of hope and progress, tempered by the acknowledgment that much work remains to be done to eradicate this deeply rooted issue.

Tina Swithin, the founder of One Mom’s Battle, shares her deeply personal story as a survivor of both domestic violence and post-separation abuse. Her advocacy journey is driven by a dedication to raising awareness about the crisis within the family court system. Despite facing severe financial abuse, Tina could not afford an attorney when her ordeal began in August 2009. Fleeing to a women’s shelter for her safety, she typed her first court declarations in a desperate attempt to protect herself and her children.

Tina highlights the harsh reality that hiring an attorney was not an option for her, and she vividly recounts securing a restraining order that proved ineffective. Facing violations of the order without repercussions, she realized she could not rely on law enforcement or the family court system for protection. The struggle intensified as she navigated numerous court hearings, trials, and even Child Protective Services (CPS) investigations that labeled her ex-husband as a moderate risk but allowed continued contact with her children.

Tina’s experience reveals the systemic challenges within the family court, where inconsistency, lack of regulation, and a dearth of oversight leave children vulnerable. She vividly describes feeling as if she had a personal terrorist assigned to her case, and the toll this took on her mental and emotional well-being. The narrative exposes the need for radical changes in a system that, for Tina, felt like the Wild West.

The turning point in Tina’s journey came when she began observing court proceedings and studying similar cases. This empowered her to strategize effectively, leading to a second child custody evaluation in 2012 that validated her concerns and protected her children. However, she emphasizes the arbitrary nature of family court outcomes, calling for much-needed regulation, consistency, oversight, and accountability.

Tina underscored the urgency of addressing post-separation abuse, which she deems more painful than abuse endured during the relationship itself. Her story serves as a stark reminder that domestic violence is about power and control, and these dynamics often persist even after the relationship ends. Tina expressed gratitude to journalists for shedding light on family court stories, urging them to recognize the gravity of the crisis within the system.

In her advocacy journey, Tina has played a pivotal role in legislative change, supporting bills such as Kaden’s Law and actively participating in hearings. Beyond legislative efforts, she founded the Family Court Awareness Fund, which has garnered over 300 proclamations declaring November as Family Court Awareness Month across the country.

Tina concluded her powerful testimony by calling for increased media attention to family court issues, emphasizing that post-separation abuse is an extension of domestic abuse. With November designated as Family Court Awareness Month, she urged journalists to spotlight these critical issues and contribute to the ongoing conversation about reforming the family court system.

Becky Sandrum, a seasoned reporter with a four-decade career known for insightful reporting on domestic violence, shared a poignant story that underscored the significance of California’s new coercive control law. This law has the potential to address cases like the one she’s about to narrate.

Becky recounted an incident from two decades ago when a man approached her in the newsroom, seeking coverage for his daughter’s story. The daughter, named Mariam, had been a victim of an arranged marriage gone terribly wrong. The man, originally from Pakistan, had misled Mariam into marriage, claiming to be a well-paid software engineer in Silicon Valley.

As Mariam discovered the truth about her husband’s low-paying job and involvement in the production of pornographic movies, her life became a nightmare. Her husband’s coercive control escalated to the point where he threatened to involve their young daughter in his illicit activities if Mariam didn’t comply. Fearing for her child’s safety, Mariam fled, becoming a fugitive from justice.

Becky, upon receiving the story, delved deeper, seeking documents and evidence. The husband, pretending to be desperate and lonely, allowed an interview, providing an opportunity to expose the truth. With the support of the advocacy group Narika and an attorney named Dan Mayfield, Mariam’s constant communication with her daughter’s father was established, and she was rightfully cleared of any wrongdoing.

Mariam’s case, though resolved, underscores the urgent need for laws like Senator Rubio’s coercive control legislation. Becky emphasizes that not all judges are familiar with such laws, leading to potential skepticism and disbelief toward survivors. She acknowledges the recent signing of Pinky’s Law, another milestone in addressing issues related to domestic violence and coercive control.

However, Becky highlights the ongoing challenge of educating judges about the nuances of domestic violence. Despite the availability of new legislation, there is still work to be done to ensure that judges understand and recognize the signs of coercive control. The recent strides in legislative change, coupled with continued efforts to educate judicial authorities, offer hope for survivors like Mariam in seeking justice and protection.

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